aunt agony

hello people! long time no blog! i am here today to play/seek aunt agony and discuss relationships issues.

recently i have been quite unhappy because my good friends have found boyfriends and are neglecting me. not that i blame then, they need their honeymoon period, but HELLO! bros before hos! jk. i foresee by the end of the semester they'd be running to be crying about their relationship problems already but CHOIII, let's not wish this upon them.

next, another friend and i discussed our issues about being single. why is it that there are so many guys in this world that we know, but none of them catches our eyes, and those that do always end up attached, or something like that. and also, why is it we can't get over our past?

the reason to both issues is interlinked. you still can't get over your past because you haven't found someone new to obsess over. and you can't find someone new to obsess over because you still can't get over your past. break this vicious cycle! go for a makeover! change your perspectives! meet new people! don't be afraid of taking chances even if it ends up as a failure!

moving on, we have those who used to have 好感 with each other, but as they proceed to know each other better, one of them decides that the other is not actually that attractive. why does this happen??? it's quite sad, especially when you are the person not liked, and suddenly the other person just stopped talking to you and you have no idea what's going on and what happened =( it's quite bad too if you're the person who doesn't like the other, then you'd be feeling guilty if you have a conscience, or you'd be wondering why is it no one can attract you, maybe your standard too high?

PROBLEMS PROBLEMS PROBLEMS. give me solutions! or i'll just end up marrying joshua if he still wants me.