i insist it was the BEST day.

last saturday, i had had an amazing day. in the morning i was out with fel, story here. the rest of the day i was with shenny, jeewei, adrena and carmen. story here.

first i'd like to say im grateful i was "invited" to Aneurin's place, although not personally, but when i got there, he actually said that he knows me! from the blog! waseehh good publicity lah. ahahha. (rozana sitting beside me is laughing. "dont talk like as if you're a star").

anyway, if you've already read about all the things that Carmen had went through that day, i really applaud her for being so courageous and calm. AMAZING. so many times i told her that if i were her, i'd already be screaming up and down. she said that's not her. haha so i should reflect upon myself hmmm..

and from the optimistic part of me, i'd say that day was full of excitement, even though there were nerve-wrecking times and all, because those feelings are momentary, but the experience will forever be engraved in the minds and when you look back on it, you will only remember how amusing and fun the whole situation was.

carmen, i insist it was a special day. it was the BEST day so far in your life. hehehe! you can't say it's the worst day, because it's over, and nothing bad came out of it right? except your mom saying that she'll never let you drive the car again..but doesn't that mean she'll let you drive another car? an auto transmission car! HAHAHA. =) so yup.

here's something for everyone, i got it from a forwarded email:

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose. Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil,without saying a word.

After a while she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see."

"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?"

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity - boiling water. Each reacted differently.The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?"



Think of this:

Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength? Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with theheat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, It releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity?